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Walking on Eggshells: Why “Co-Parenting” Feels Anything But Cooperative
Family-Court Reality Dave Farnick 7/15/25 Family-Court Reality Dave Farnick 7/15/25

Walking on Eggshells: Why “Co-Parenting” Feels Anything But Cooperative

Bias, billable conflict, rubber decrees—why “best interests” can feel like a pay-per-view fight parents can’t escape.

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A Small Win on the Scoreboard—Waiting for Kick-Off
Co-Parenting & Custody Struggles Dave Farnick 7/10/25 Co-Parenting & Custody Struggles Dave Farnick 7/10/25

A Small Win on the Scoreboard—Waiting for Kick-Off

PTE says sports sign-ups start in the kids’ own district—one sentence that protects teammates, carpools, and a little dad peace of mind.

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Daycare vs. Dad Time – When a Missing Clause Redefines “What’s Best for Kids”
Dave Farnick 7/8/25 Dave Farnick 7/8/25

Daycare vs. Dad Time – When a Missing Clause Redefines “What’s Best for Kids”

When a clause letting parents skip daycare vanishes, afternoons at the lake turn into fluorescent lights—research and real life show why that matters.

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“It’s Too Early, Dad”: How an 8 A.M. Drop-Off Rewrote Our Mornings
Co-Parenting & Custody Struggles Dave Farnick 7/8/25 Co-Parenting & Custody Struggles Dave Farnick 7/8/25

“It’s Too Early, Dad”: How an 8 A.M. Drop-Off Rewrote Our Mornings

A new 8 a.m. drop-off rule adds four extra drives, makes me 30 minutes late to work, and leaves the kids asking, “Why so early, Dad?”

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When the Rules Feel One-Sided
Co-Parenting & Custody Struggles Dave Farnick 7/8/25 Co-Parenting & Custody Struggles Dave Farnick 7/8/25

When the Rules Feel One-Sided

One parent shares every detail; the other stays silent. Here’s how unequal rules shape our co-parenting reality—and why I document everything.

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Presence Is the Win
Fatherhood & Emotional Health Dave Farnick 4/10/25 Fatherhood & Emotional Health Dave Farnick 4/10/25

Presence Is the Win

Winning isn’t always about courts or calendars. Sometimes, the greatest victory is simply showing up — and staying there, no matter what.

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When Being Invited Isn’t the Same as Being Welcome
Children First: Their Experience Dave Farnick 4/9/25 Children First: Their Experience Dave Farnick 4/9/25

When Being Invited Isn’t the Same as Being Welcome

Sometimes you realize the door you walked through wasn’t really open. But you stay anyway — for the ones who need to see you standing there.

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David vs Goliath: The Battle Fathers Know Too Well
The Reality of the Family Court System Dave Farnick 4/8/25 The Reality of the Family Court System Dave Farnick 4/8/25

David vs Goliath: The Battle Fathers Know Too Well

Showing up when you’re welcome is easy. Showing up when you’re dismissed, misunderstood, or excluded — that’s where the real battle is.

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